(Closed) Fighting more the closer it gets.

posted 7 years ago in Money
Post # 3
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1088 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

You have a lot of stress in your life with the wedding planning ALONE – adding moving in together, school, less hours at work will definitely add to the pressure. yes, it does get better after the wedding because you are no longer planning a huge event and spending tons of money. But, try and focus on your relationship right now, that’s the most important thing. At teh end of the day, the most important thing to remember is that you are marrying the love of your life. Can you both somehow remind each other of that? Can you cut out extra costs of the wedding? Trust me, when it’s all over, those extra favors and little decorations won’t really matter that much.

Post # 4
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3081 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I don’t know if it will or won’t but I’m sending hugs your way.

I could give you all the advice in the world right now but the truth is, when you snap or get irritable there is often no way to talk yourself down. I bet that he is worried about money just like you are, sometimes they just think/act differently when upset.

You can get through this!

Post # 5
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

gosh yes – we never argued until we became engaged and i remember saying to him one night we wont make the wedding date as a couple if we kept fighting over stupid stuff like invites and guest lists.  goodluck and remember to take some time out as a couple to enjoy yourselves – dont let the wedding be in ever conversation

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