Post # 1
sooo my fiance and I just had a huge fight over the wedding. He doesn’t like any of the ideas i have for favors and for stupid reasons. He thinks they cost to much when i have proven that they will actually be less than what we planed on. Than he said the favors i liked would be to much work when I would be the one doing all the work and I don’t mind. I yelled at him and told him if he doesn’t like all of my ideas he can think of some….he than named one idea that i hate and told me he doesn’t have the time to think of ideas for the wedding, but some how he has plenty of time to play call of duty. sorry just needed to vent
Post # 3
Don’t have favors? LoL, you are still a long ways out from the wedding and guys tend to not get wrapped up in the details. My Fiance response to any “Detail” question I ask is “whatever you want, dear.” It was frustrating, but I’ve learned to narrow the list down to 5 ideas and let him look over the list real quick. If he says no to all of them, I go back to the drawing board. I’ve found it is kind of fun to compile these lists because I get my wedding planning/researching itch outta my system and have fun trying to guess what he will pick.
I HATE the guestbook he picked (purple damask even though we have a butterfly themed wedding and not damask), but I gave it to him since it crept onto the list and he chose it. Sometimes if we give them the little victories they are more compliant.
If you have BMs that are helping out they are great to plan the details with and far less frustrating.