(Closed) fighting

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I really don’t understand why you got mad at him when he went to see his friend.  It doesn’t sound like he does it very often and everyone needs to spend time with their friends sometimes.  I think it was sort of wrong of you to just throw the possible pregnancy thing in his face at the end of a fight.  That really wasn’t an appropriate time.  I think the two of you need to sit down and talk.  Make a schedule for when you will each spend time with your own friends and if he wants to stay there late, so be it.

Post # 4
Member
4765 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

I think I’m a bit confused by the situation. You got mad at him for going to see a friend that he hadn’t seen in a while, when you see him daily? Somehow, that doesn’t seem fair to me. You fiance should be able to go out and spend time with his friends without you getting upset at him. Try putting yourself in his shoes – if you hadn’t seen one of your friends in a while and when you finally did he got mad at you for not being with him, how would you feel? 

Also, I agree with MissAsB (and your fiance) that it wasn’t right of you to throw the pregnancy thing at him while you were fighting. That’s huge news and it shouldn’t be used to throw him off in a fight. 

I definitely think that you guys should sit down and talk and maybe you can explain to him why it bothers you when he spends time with his friends. To be honest, it sounds like there is a deeper problem to me, because I’m not sure I can understand why you’d be upset at him for hanging out with a friend.

Post # 6
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I don’t think he should be so dismissive of the job at McDonalds.  I don’t have a job right now and I would take anything I can find.  I haven’t had any luck finding things.  But at least I have my husband to help with the bills.  I think that he should be taking that job to pay off his own bills instead of putting it on your shoulders.

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