- 6 years ago
- Wedding: December 2012
after spending 2 months with dress regret and feeling sad about not finding another dress i sold my old dress and started shopping again, after so many emotions and my family and friends thinking im crazy i tried more dresses but couldnt get out of my mind a dress that i tried the first time i went dress shopping but i was with my best friend and she just hate it but something about the dress was different and later i discover that it was my dress and that day I let other ppl decision decied for me.
As i mention in my previous post that i always thought i wanted to use a mermaid or fitted dress for my wedding because i have curves and thats all i had in my mind till i tried this dress and i realize i wear fitted clothes all the time so yes thats the only idea i had in mind, even my family chose always a fitted or mermaid dress for me.
But then i saw this and it gave me a lot of inspiration
So i just thought i should try this dress a few times before making a decision, just by myself of how i really feel with the dress. I went back to DB and its so funny i felt embarrased because it was like the 5th time i was there so the manager remember my name and i said i was looking for another dress and she said she might have an idea of what i was looking for and i show her the dress and when i tried it on i just smile and smile and i told myself this is my dress….it makes me happy it makes me different and is who i am, dont get me wrong i must of the time wear fitted clothes but im kinda hippie so dont imagine a lot of fancy sexy outfits unless is a party hahaha…so this was my dress..and then the manager told me she knew from the first time that was my dress because the only time i smile a lot with a dress on was with that one but she couldnt put her opinion against mine when i chose the other dress…
what i learn from this, im very indecisive so i know now for very important decisions like this i want to make them my own, who i am and not what i think my family or friends my like better on me.