Post # 1
about a year now, figured i should finally join instead of just creeping on the waiting board at least once a day.
a little about me and my bf, i’m 22 and he is 24. we both have been finished with schooling for awhile and came out debt-free, thank god! and do pretty well at our jobs. we have been together a little over 2 years. we have lived together 1 1/2 years and he is the best man i have ever known and i’m so glad that he’s mine and i’m his.
the only downside is he’s not ready to get married…for awhile, but oh well. i can just save money for a wedding while i wait and hopefully not annoy him with ‘how much longer??’ that can be other peoples job to annoy him, and i’ll just sit there and laugh. haha.
mostly just wanted to say hello and actually contribute support, not just cyber-stalk, to all the amazing ladies out there.
Post # 3
@gir: Nothing wrong with cyber-stalking, haha, once I decided on a dress I cyber-stalked it for hours at a time. Welcome to the Bee! You’ll get lots of support in the Waiting boards.
Post # 5
Welcome to the waiting hive!
I would suggest reading ‘Mr. Bees Advice’, which is really just good advice about how to live your live in general. Also, ‘How to Handle the Waiting Period’ so that you don’t become a crazy waiting lady
See you around!
Post # 6
@gir: Welcome to the hive !!!
like the PP said you will get tons of support on the waiting and 20 something boards. Im almost 21 so I understand the whole waiting for your SO to be ready thing (we are waiting at least 4-5 more years) although Im not as financially stable as you (Still in college).
and dont feel bad for lurking, we all did it.
Post # 7
@gir: Welcome! I like your username! I’m surprised it wasn’t already taken lol.
I’m sure this guy is worth waiting for, hopefully it isn’t too long of a wait though!
Don’t answer if you don’t want to, but what is he waiting for anyway?
Post # 8
Hi there!! Welcome to the bee!! 🙂
Post # 9
Love the user name (clearly ).
As a Waiting Bee who recently got engaged, when it’s over you’ll wonder why it ever seemed so difficult. Hang in there.
Good luck, and welcome!
Post # 10
Welcome to the hive and waiting boards. I am new here too. We can wait together!
Post # 11
Tank you bees!!
@lovelee1- he is not really ready, he wants time to adjust to not having to look after his siblings all the time(he’s 1 of 5 and the oldest, when his dad died his mom went pretty crazy). Which is fine, and we both have things that we want to do like travel and buy a house first.