- 3 years ago
- Wedding: December 2015
SO And i have been talking kids and marriage for a while, but it had always been one day or in the future.
I was getting frustrated and feeling unwanted because he would not give me a timeline. (He is the child that was supose to fix his parents divorce.) I finally asked him what the deal was. I laid out a hypothetical timeline of what our future would look like if we got engaged in a year. Then I spaced everything out (wedding-we both want something small or courthouse, kids- we want at least two) with plenty of time so things wouldnt feel rushed. It put me at having kids to mid to late thirties. he finally understood why hearing a timeline from him was important. (In regards to making sure we would be able to have a family one day.)
he said he understood my concerns and he needs to put butt in gear and get this show on the road. (he’s about ten years older than me, I’m in late 20s he’s in late 30s.) he said he would like to have a family sooner rather than later and proceeded to ask me what type of ring would like!!
Bees I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I don’t feel scared or uncertain anymore because I know for certain that he is in my future. (the Ring will come later to make it all official!!)