Financing the ring is that bad?!?!

posted 2 years ago in Rings
Post # 2
Hostess
9892 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

acglandorf:  DH put mine on his credit card, I don’t see the difference.  That said, we both had a good laugh when the sales lady at a high end store tried to talk DH into buying me a ring that was about 3x our budget and paying it off at 3% interest over 15 years.  That is insane IMO. 

Our wedding bands were purchased on a no payments no interest plan just because it was one less thing to pay for before the wedding.  I don’t see anything wrong with it at all.

Post # 3
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7281 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

It’s a personal priority thing. The only things I am willing to finance are our home (because saving $500k in cash takes so long and housing prices will increase even more while I’m saving for the original mark), a vehicle (if desperate), and we’re now considering partially financing IVF rather than draw all of that money from our savings account. That’s it. Jewelry is most definitely not on my list of things that are “worth” going into debt for.

Post # 4
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2865 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

It really depends on your individual situation. We financed my ring and paid it off in a year on a 0% interest deal from the store. We let our money sit in the bank collecting interest and paid them off before the promotion ended.

Post # 6
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823 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

DH put my ring on his credit card to get the points but paid it off the next month because we don’t carry a balance on our cards.

I see nothing wrong with having a no payment/no interest plan and paying it off before it’s due.  However, if you’re going into debt for a ring, I don’t think that’s a smart move.

Post # 7
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689 posts
Busy bee

You should do what is right for you and your fiance. You should also try to stop caring what other people think of you. There are not the ones saving for your future and their opinion should not matter whatsoever in what choices you make in life. unless they are paying for them.

Post # 8
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1202 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Nobody lends you money for free.  You either pay interest, or you pay a higher purchase price. 

You can do a lot of negotiating with jewellery.  If you’re financing through the store or taking advantage of those “Don’t pay for 6 months!!!!” offers, you could be missing out on a nice discount.  That said, if you absolutely must have the ring, there’s nothing embarassing about paying a little extra to ensure you get it. 

Post # 9
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1022 posts
Bumble bee

Everyone’s going to have a strong opinion on this, but I think the only people who should be concerned or have a say in this decision are you and your FI. If you both feel it’s acceptable to finance jewelry, then that’s all that matters.

If I were in your shoes, I wouldn’t because I can’t justify taking a loan or financing anything except a home. That being said, my DH paid for my custom e-ring and our wedding bands in full with his savings, but if the option to finance was brought up, I would have asked him to purchase a less expensive ring and band. But that’s just my opinion.

Post # 10
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374 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2015 - Surrey, BC, Canada

No advice to offer on that front except for do what you want, and what feels right for the 2 of you. No one else’s opinion matters. I also struggle with wondering what others think of me but am trying to overcome that. 🙂

Post # 11
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2791 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - Walnut Hill Bed & Breakfast

My fiance could have paid it out of his savings immediately but deicded to get a new credit card with a 0% interest for 12 months deal + i think he got a $300 or so statement credit back for spending X amount within the first 3 months or something. He pays on it so that it’ll be paid off before the end of that 0% interest time.

Post # 12
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3661 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

My FI and I were a lot like you guys! We just decided to get married and even picked out a ruby ring! We put it on our credit card, and paid it off once the bill came out. With that said, I wouldn’t have any problem financing something at 0% and paying it off before paying any interest, as long as I knew I could pay it off. If there was interest involved, I probably would do it. If pressed, I would rather sign up for a credit card with 0% for a year and put it on there.

Post # 14
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8599 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

If you can afford the payments and if it’s the right option for you then go for it! I think most people say not to finance a ring so you don’t start off married life in debt. Because financial difficulties can cause strain on a marriage especially a new marrage since the first year tends to be the hardest. I think this is more directed to couples who are financing a ring that is beyond their means. So don’t worry about it if you guys can easily make the monthly payments. Congrats 🙂

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2016 - Whitetail Ridge

My fiance put 50% down on my ring and financed the rest at 0% interest for 12 months. He will have it paid off way before the end of those 12 months. If it is something that you can feasibly budget and are getting 0% interest on it, I’d say go for it. Helps build credit, as well.

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