- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
Yes, everybody. I have a huge family, and they all want to be involved in the wedding. I love them for that, but how the heck do I say “you guys are driving me nuts!!” I already have some cousins in the bridal party, brother walking me down, dancing with grandfathers, cousins as ushers, uncle doing a reading, cousins as flower girls/ ring bearer, nephew as ring bearer… And my family is so big that I’m still leaving people out. My aunts and grandma keep asking me to put more people in it, and honestly it’s become a circus that I don’t even want to go to! I feel aweful for my fiance, because my entire family is taking over. I feel like I’m not getting anything I want, everyone is walking all over me and I can’t say no. Did anybody else have this problem? What’d you do to solve it?? It’s already such a stressful day, and mine will be pretty gloomy without my dad- the last thing I want is family drama..