(Closed) Finding it hard today…

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1566 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Wow…that is tough!! I have a hard time myself with no weddings to attend in the near future!  I think both of the situations you mentioned are pretty bad.  Like you said, your friend will probably need you in the future so that would be a hard one to boycott…however I would express my concern to her in marrying such an asshole!  How long have you been with your SO??   Do you have any idea when he may propose?? Just wondering…sorry you are having a bad day 🙁

Post # 4
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47 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I kind of understand how you feel! My SO’s best friend (he’s the best man in the upcoming wedding) is marrying someone totally wrong for him. The situation isn’t nearly as bad as you described (abuse isn’t an issue, thank goodness), but we both have a strong feeling that this marriage will end in divorce. It’s hard to watch and it’s even harder to say what the appropriate action is to remedy the situation. 

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this… I know it’s hard to focus on this now but try to remind yourself that when you do get engaged (which is hopefully soon!) that you’ll be entering a healthy, loving marriage!

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