Fine China, Crystal, Silver?

posted 3 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 2
Member
2831 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Fine China and crystal,  yes. Every registry I’ve seen lately has included them. Silver, not so much. It’s so so so so so so expensive.

We didn’t register for China or crystal, because I already have a set of China that I inherited, and we’re not crystal people. Plus, I’ll inherit a set of silver eventually. 

Post # 3
Member
7664 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

Instead of silver, why not ask for a high quality set of Japanese stainless steel? It is harder wearing than silver, easier to clean, and often has a similar, attractive finish.

Post # 4
Member
5883 posts
Bee Keeper

Unlesss you have the place to store all those things and really plan on using them, I found that over time it was a waste to have it all. My sister (married 35+ years), has used hers only once. I asked her what she was saving it for and she really had no answer. My Mom only used hers for Holiday dinners, but once the family expanded, she really didn’t have enough of anything (and the pattern was discontinued). Once we numbered over 30, NONE of us have the space nor the desire to have so many things that get used only occasionally.

I just got rid of both mine and my Mom’s when we moved in December. What I loved while in my 20’s is not what I love now. If you decide on getting anything, I’d suggest getting something pretty plain and simple so you don’t get tired of it and so it will go with everything once your taste changes (and it will).

Post # 5
Member
595 posts
Busy bee

We actually opted to not register for all of the above. At this point in our lives we don’t think we need them and would rather have some other basics that we could use over fine china. When/If we do need them, we will just buy them on our own. We just registered for nice dishes, flatware, and serveware that we can use everyday.

Post # 6
Member
877 posts
Busy bee

Lots of ordinary people register for fine china, crystal, and flatware.  I think your thought of the average price of a gift is correct, and yes, individually they may only purchase one or two settings.  There is the possibility of being given just a few for your wedding, but in my experience with multiple friends’ weddings, I think it is rare to get very few.  As a single chick, I picked a white bone china for my everyday dishes when I got my first apartment.  My grandma, mother, and aunt purchased pieces of it for me for Christmas, and my birthday for several years.  I don’t have a 12 piece set yet, but since that wasn’t necessary it wasn’t a big deal.  Actually, I have a more complex set, because after they purchased enough for me to have a basic set they chose to diversify my collection with accessories like soup tureens, platters, a teaset, and ice cream dishes that are segments of my pattern’s collection. It’s still available and when I do register I’ll be able to finish the set very easily!  

Post # 7
Member
1981 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

My friend recently got married and she registered for very nice silverware. Several guests got her one or two settings each and she ended up with all of them. Some guests (especially older ones) really like giving those traditional gifts. If you like the idea of having it and you will use it, then go for it!

FWIW, some people really use it. For example, I inherited my great grandmother’s silver. It’s the only silverware I own, so I use it every day, lol.

Leave a comment


Sent weekly. You may unsubscribe at any time.

Find Amazing Vendors