(Closed) first marital argument – TTC dilemma !

posted 5 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
Member
571 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think it’s very reasonable that you aren’t quite ready to jump on the baby-makin-bandwagon right away. You just got married and probably need some time to just be a married couple. And your daughter is still very young, so maybe waiting a little bit will give you the chance to enjoy newlywed life with your little family the way it is before adding to it. Have an honest talk with your DH and discuss a timeline you would be comfortable with for when you’d like to start for #2, whether it’s in a few months, half a year, a whole year, or more. Just be very honest with your feelings and be ready for a little saddness; sounds like your DH really wants to be a daddy again. Good luck!

Post # 4
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1572 posts
Bumble bee

I gotta second Mrs.LilyLunaLove! You seem to both be a little hesitant, so just enjoy the moment for now until you are both on board about #2. 🙂 And of course you could always try to adopt a boy if your husband is dead set on a boy, heheh.

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