Post # 1
So here it goes, my first post on weddingbee and I’m so excited! This webiste is just amazing! My fiance and I have our second appointment with the Rancho Bernardo Inn tonight to see if our dream July 23. 2010 wedding is a “go” or “no-go”! I’m excited either way, but anxious to either start the planning and madness tomorrow, or to slowly get the ball rolling. If anyone reads this who’s gotten married at Ranch Bernardo Inn or around there wants to help, I could SERIOUSLY use some help! I need a good photographer, florist, DJ, cake baker etc! I can’t belive I’m going to try and plan my wedding in less than for months!? Am I crazy?!!
Post # 3
BOO!!!!! Are we that scary?
Welcome to the bee, congratulations on your engagement, and Good luck tonight 😉
Post # 4
Welcome to the Hive! Glad to have ya here 🙂
I don’t think you’re crazy. You’ll just need to be in mega plan mode for a few months! Good luck tonight, hope everything works out for you!
Post # 5
Welcome and congrats!! You can certainly plan a wedding in that time, but enlist lots of help. Otherwise, you will go crazy. Good luck 🙂
Post # 6
I am a fellow San Diego bee! Our wedding date is set for October. I have some great vendor recommendations and I also have a wonderful wedding planner! She does over 30 weddings a year. Her name is Kasey Shepard and she is with I Do Weddings. She is super calm, sweet, and I think her prices are very reasonable.
PM if you need any other recommendations! VG Bakery in Cardiff is a great place for wedding cakes. Also, the RB Inn may have some great all-inclusive packages with food, cake, linens, etc.
Post # 7
Congratulations! My whole wedding just got derailed and we’re starting from scratch at 4.5 months out. You can do it 🙂
Post # 9
Brit and bees,
I love VG’s how could I forget I just moved from Cardiff!! Yes I would love any San Diego suggestions; Dj’s, photogs, florists, I need all the help I can get! Well I’m off for my appointment eeeek I’m so nervous! Thanks for all the warm welcomes, they are much apprectiated!
I’d really love to talk to someone who’s gotten married at Rancho Bernardo Inn…it might be a late July wedding and you know what that means HOT HOT HOT!
Thanks for the love and support hive xoxo,
Post # 10
Do I think you are crazy? A little. But if you want to pull off a wedding in 4 months I say all the power to you!
Post # 11
If you are decisive and not too stuck on one idea, yes, you can do it.
My wedding date is a week before what you have chosen, and I only secured my vendors in the last few weeks. That will be the hardest part, get on it stat.
Then move to invites. They take FOREVER. April is the month of invites for me, and I have so much work ahead.
You should also find a dress this month.
After that, worry about things like hair, shoes, makeup, etc., MUCH closer to the wedding. I’m always surprised by how early people do this.
Post # 12
Of corse you can!!! God created the world in 7 seven days, I say you can pull off a wedding in 4 months!!! 😉
Post # 13
I think you can pull of a wedding in 4 months, but you definitely need to be ready to put in the time (and stress) to make it happen – and make sure you’ve got a willing group on hand ready to help, because you’ll need it!
Post # 14
Welcome! And i think the bee will help you a lot in the next 4 months!! It will take a lot of hard work and a lot of patience on your part (because Im sure things will get frustrating) but I think you can definitely do it!!
Post # 15
You can totally do it! I think monitajb has some great suggestions about prioritizing the mountain of to-dos! Good luck and when it starts to get to you, just remember, you’ll be done in four months, and then you’ll be married!
Post # 16
You can definitely plan one in 4 months. I have a 6 month engagement and by 3 months had almost everything done and now I’m bored waiting for The Day. Just get the venues booked and you dress ordered asap and you’re off to a good start!