(Closed) First Registry Gift – But Now What?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Because it’s so far apart, I’d send 2 TY cards.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I would send one now so that they know you received it, and say you look forward to using it.

I wouldn’t worry about a post wedding TY necessarily (unless your guest list is small). The benefit to thanking people up front is getting the work out of the way!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

For the few gifts that we received really early I called them or said thank you when either of us saw them.  That way they knew we had received it but then I waited to send the thank you until after the wedding since I wanted to include something about the day.

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I sent 2.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I would send a thank you now, and  say something like “thank you …blah blah blah… And we look forward to see you at the wedding!”

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

what HeatherShane said.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

I sent all thank yous right when I got the gift. It made for a lot less work after the wedding. Like HeatherShane said, I just said that I would looking forward to seeing them at the wedding. And if they weren’t able to make it I said we’ll miss you at the wedding.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

We just got our first gift a week ago! I sent the thank you note right away, because I wanted to use the gift (and felt that I should say “thank you!” first).  I will only send another thank you note if the person brings an additional gift to the wedding.  If not, there’s one thank you note down, a bunch more to go!

Post # 12
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Busy Beekeeper

i think you can send one now or later, but if you wait to later, at least call or email to acknowledge you got it.  this happened to me. i sent an email to say thanks. and i will be sending out written thank yous when i print a pro pic to include.  also, you don’t have to send a thank you to someone just because they attended.  only if they give a gift (unless its a DW of course).

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

We sent our thank yous as we received gifts.  It made it much easier!

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