(Closed) First round of RSVPs back, and…

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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215 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Wow! I can’t believe someone would do that! VERY rude! Great response though. Glad you stood up for yourself and didn’t just give in. 

Post # 4
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665 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

So rude! Yeah if they have not been together for more than a 1 year I would not even consider inviting their gf/bf. Very presumptuous of this girl that does not even know you! I wonder if this relative is aware of her inviting herself to the wedding. I’m sure he will be understanding as long as you inform him of your wedding guest situation.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Yeah I’m just waiting for this to happen to me, so irritating!!  I didn’t even get my invitations sent out yet, and I already got one decline because one of my good friends “already has a trip planned”.  My MOH informed me that she talked to him, and it’s a CORN MAZE.  For the love… 

But yes, definitely…it was rude of them to change your 1 to a 2 and add herself in!  I think some people just don’t understand the whole wedding budgeting process though…they don’t think it’s a big deal, but then what happens is you get into the mess of “well you did it for so-and-so, why can’t you add one for me?”  Annnnnd it all goes down the crapper.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I can’t believe that didn’t happen to us, but I am thinking it wasn’t an option with the ones who had to respond online.

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