Post # 1
Yesterday, my FI and I were on our way home from work, and he goes, “I had a really weird, but sweet dream last night.” I was really excited to hear about it, because he never tells me about dreams that he’s had or shares his feelings on things. He’s a pretty even-keeled guy that doesn’t go for romanticism.
Apparently, he had a dream that it was like a zombie apocalypse, but instead of zombies taking over the earth, it was “weird tall orange stick things,” according to him. He said we were in a hotel, and it was like a safe haven. He said, “At some point in the dream it was clear that the orange stick things were going to get into the hotel and we were going to die. So I frantically started searching for a chapel in the hotel so that we could get married before we died.” I got tears in my eyes! Weird, yes, but I was really touched that it means so much to him and that he chose to share it!
Has your FI said or done anything during the planning process that surprised you in a good way?
Post # 3
I was really stresses about the wedding a couple of weeks back and he saw me stressing and came up to me and said, “Listen we’re in this together, tell me what you want me to work on and I’ll take them off your hands.” Needless to say, FI booked uplighting and helped me finish my DIY projects.
I really love him!
Post # 4
@Magsalot: Awwww, that’s so awesome! I feel like so much of the stuff we have to do is on our shoulders. It really means a lot to know that they don’t think that’s the case!
Post # 5
Aw! My fiance has started having wedding nightmares too. He told me the other day he dreamed that he still hadn’t bought my wedding band and he was on the way to the wedding and this old couple was driving him and he wanted to stop at a jeweller but they kept forcing him to go to all these weird places and he was getting so frustrated cuz he was going to be late. It made me feel good to know that he worries about the wedding too…
Post # 6
Aww, that’s so sweet! My FI doesn’t talk a lot about his feelings either, but he’s getting better about it. Little things my FI does will touch me like when he brings up the wedding in any way cuz he doesn’t talk about it nearly as much as I do.