- 5 years ago
- Wedding: July 2013
So I did up our timeline really early (5 months to go)….and sent it out..
I’m glad I did because my FI’s sister had agreed to hosting the groomsmen for getting ready pics so that it was easier on her kids who are in the wedding….we had several conversations about this….she lost it when she received it and called all her family saying that she never agreed to it and that her kids aren’t even in the wedding…:-/
So then she proceeded to text FI and go on about how she’s not trying to be a queen b about her kids not being in the wedding, etc etc etc……and how she’s been listening closely to hear if they were in the wedding, but haven’t heard anything (I was there when FI told her they were)
Then she went on about how since we decided on the groomsmen’s tuxes that she assumed her kids weren’t in the wedding…which I’m confused, I went to the tux place in the summer, chose what I wanted, had it inputed in the computer and when the guys need to go and get their suits they are all set and just need to be fitted….was she expecting to have input?
I also did not put her kids on it because it is $200 each suit, so $400 for the 2 kids…I didn’t want her to have to shell that out since she told us when we got engaged she can’t afford a lot…so I figured she could buy something from a kids store for around $50 that would be appropriate…
So now I’m a bridezilla because they assume that my FI is not making any decisions.
At this point it’s been almost a week and we have not heard from FI’s sister or his mom.
I had been emailing updates on the wedding plans to FI’s family, but will discontinue that (especially since the word “bridezilla” came up). I’m really not happy and neither is FI.
It’s not even about her not hosting the groomsmen, it’s the way she handled it. She called EVERYONE in her family to bitch about us BEFORE even coming to us with the issue. She called everyone within an hour of me emailing out the timeline.
I guess I’m just venting, I just have had enough with wedding drama.