(Closed) FI's sister won't be attending wedding. Do I…

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
2705 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Yes, you should definitely still send a STD and invite.  Things could change, the babies might come early, and she might be able to make the wedding afterall.  But maybe you can include a little note about how you understand she might not make but wanted to send her one just in case.

Post # 4
5273 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I would send both the STD & an invite – with her being family, I’m sure she would want to keep both regardless if she is able to attend or not. 

Post # 6
1408 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Like the other ladies said, yes. I know one of my close friends & her husband won’t be able to come to our destination wedding but I”m still sending them a STD & invite.

Post # 7
5011 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

Has she said she’s definitely not coming? I’ve known quite a few people bring newborns to weddings (at least for a little while). 

Post # 8
94 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I sent a friend of mine a STD, and she sadly told me that she wouldn’t be able to come because she was doing a 100-mile bike race that same day.

I decided to send her an invitation anyway, and since the STD, she’s changed her mind about the bike race and dropped out! So she asked me if it would be okay to RSVP yes and I said ‘OF COURSE!’ You really never know.

Post # 9
146 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I agree that you should send her the STD and invite whether she can come or not. I would be upset if I didn’t get them for my brother’s wedding. 🙂

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