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Five o'clock in the afternoon or evening?

posted 2 years ago in Paper
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  • poll: Five o'clock in the...
    afternoon : (18 votes)
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    evening : (52 votes)
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    MsAnnaLytical    March 13, 2010   Orlando, FL--finally with my FI!

    I'm wording my invites and want to know...should I say that our wedding will be at five o'clock in the afternoon, or five o'clock in the evening? It will technically be before the sun goes down, but the reception continues in the evening, so I'm not sure.

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    I only consider afternoon up til 4:00 ish. 5:00pm is dinnertime to me.

    I"d say "evening"

     
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    hotchildinthecity    June 12, 2010   New York, NY

    I agree with evening as well. 

     
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    hamster    May 30, 2010  

    I voted for evening as well. 

     
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    bluespurrs    August 7, 2009   South-central PA, USA, Earth

    Technically it is still afternoon until 6 PM, at least that is what I was taught.

     
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    Miss Cherry Limeade    10/9/10  

    Evening.

     
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    KellyV    September 12, 2009   New York, NY

    I had the same dilemma.  Wedding Paper Divas kept changing my proof to "afternoon" bc they said evening isnt until 6, but it just felt wrong to me.  5'o clock is evening.  My concern was the dress.  I didnt want people dressing for a sunny afternoon wedding when its really an evening wedding and reception.  And trust me when I tell you, NOBODY NOTICES.   I wouldnt get an invite and question the time of day being listed wrong unless it said somehting like "1:00 in the evening" ;)

     
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    GaBGal    September 25, 2010  

    Evening. It may be technically afternoon until 6 PM, but I think that evening sounds better!

     
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    IA_Snowflake    August 29, 2009   Missouri Valley, IA

    I'd use evening.

     
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    JoonBee    06/2010  

    Even though technically 5pm is in the afternoon, I'd use "evening" to set the tone for the whole event, since essentially, you are having an evening wedding event.

     
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    joyce    June 6, 2009  

    I thought evening starts at 6pm. Now that I think about it I don't remember what we ended up using on our invites.

     
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    mary-alice-me    May 24, 2009   Kentucky

    I think it's up to you because it's on the border. I would consider the time of year and the tone of your event. For instance, in the summer when it stays light past 9 p.m., go for afternoon. In the winter, choose evening. I'd probably go for evening in March unless you have a preference.

    In the end, it won't matter to your guests what is written on the invitation.

     
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    starburst    10/10/10   Living in FL, Wedding in MI

    I vote evening as well. It's an evening event, not a purely afternoon event.

     
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    jaydee1125    August 14, 2010   living in MA wedding in SC

    I voted for evening as well

     
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    LatteLove    June 19, 2009   Chicago/San Diego

    Personally I would say afternoon.  An afternoon event can continue into the evening, but 5pm is still considered afternoon.

     
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    NishP27    6/26/2010   South Carolina

    5pm is still considered afternoon, actually afternoon ends at 5:30pm, and 6pm starts evening...

     
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    Ember78    December 15, 2012  

    All the etiquette books I have read say that 5pm is afternoon and 6 pm is evening.

     
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    tessabella76    September 12, 2009   Ohio

    I say afternoon.

     
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    thefuturemrsjewell    August 7, 2010   Washington DC

    i think etiquette says "afternoon" but if you feel like evening is more appropriate, go for it, it's your wedding, you can do whatever you want!

     
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    ilovenycmissie    September 2009   nyc

    after 6pm it is evening

     
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    floridabeachbride    05-28-11   Melbourne, FL

    evening..but I am not up for etiquette..

     
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    ddubzz    June 5, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    I voted afternoon.  I plan to put "half past five in the afternoon" on my invites...

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    I said evening as well because it sounds better.  To me if you'd consider eating dinner at that time, it's evening.

     
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    Johnsbride09    7/3/2009   Northern Virginia

    According to ettiquette, evening starts at 6:00.  However, my wedding began at 5:00 and I had "evening" on the invitation.

     
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    chicagobride092010    January 2010   Canada

    You could avoid the issue altogether by just writing five, six, five o'clock or six o'clock.  Nobody's going to show up in the AM.

     
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    Cactus    August 8, 2009   Scottsdale, Arizona

    5pm is technically the afternoon.  Evening does not begin until 6pm.  See link.

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090225104808AAYlR7d

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    If it says afternoon is will be correct and like @lattelove said, people will know that it STARTS in the late afternoon and will go into the evening as far as dress,etc

     
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    star    October 11, 2009   New York, NY!

    I vote for evening

     
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    Jslong11    10/23/2010   Richmond, VA

    I also vote Evening!

     
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    nybride09    9/19/09   New York, NY

    technically it's afternoon but how about leaving off "in the afternoon" or "evening" altogether? no one's going to assume it's 5am!

     

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