- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2011
We have been engaged over 1 year now and our wedding is in less than 2 months.
When we first got engaged, we argue a lot and we are still arguing the same issue.
Our arguements are over small issues. It’s not only limited to wedding related. We have been spending a lot of our time to prepare for our wedding. We don’t go out or go on dates and have fun anymore. There is no time and our focus is on the wedding.
He said I have been sloppy and haven’t been dressing up. How can I dress up if we are always home and working on our wedding? We haven’t been having intimate time because we argue all the time. He said I treat our intimate time like a “chore”. I don’t feel like he is making any effort. Additionally, I feel like I lost interests in being intimate or do anything special for him.
It’s recently my bday he bought me a $4000 dollar gift but I asked him to return it cuz i don’t think I need it. Then when we argue he would say “Oh I bought you that gift but you decided to return in” in a not very nice way/tone.
I know wedding planning can be very stressful but I am also scared that we are not compatible. This makes me feel very uneasy and annoyed but I am not sure what to do as my wedding day is coming real soon.
I am really scared that we are not compatible.