(Closed) Flirting at party

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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3170 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Drinking always changes a person. My husband and I don’t drink so that’s not an issue with us but I agree that it’s good to see your SO in all situations if possible. Not always an option though.

Post # 4
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1124 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I can really see how that would upset her, especially if this is a regular behavior when he gets drunk.

I know how my fiance is when he’s drunk. He’s not sexual, and thankfully he doesn’t dance at all so I don’t have to worry about what happened to your friend, but he’s crazy. He talks to anyone and everyone about everything but when a girl goes too far he stops it.

If he drinks I do think it’s important to know that side of him too before you get married.

Post # 5
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3340 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - Rhode Island

I agree you should know pretty much everything there is to know about your SO before you get married.  Not all drunk guys flirt.  My fiance goes through stages.  At first, he’s really talkative.  Then he’s crazy/obnoxious.  Then he just wants to be left alone and will wander away from the party to sleep under a bush.  LOL!

Post # 6
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1074 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

That is not cool. I guess I am more of an aggressive person, but I would have definitely said something to his “friend” and most certainly to him. If she were just some random woman, then she’s a non-factor, but since she is his “friend”, someone that we may have to be around in the future, she would have been made aware of my feelings. That is humiliating, drunk or not. As the saying goes, “a drunk man’s tongue is a sober man’s mind” or in this case “actions”. My FI knows better than to dance with another woman, especially when she’s dancing like a skeezer. Not okay. 

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