(Closed) Flower Arrangment

posted 8 years ago in Flowers
Post # 3
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3866 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

perhaps she doesn’t have the extra money to buy the real ones?  or doesn’t want to “waste” them on an arrangement you don’t like? 

maybe you could offer to buy the roses for the trail run?  or even ask why she wants to do the trail run in artificial flowers, explaining you thought it would be with real flowers and don’t understand this.  that way you’re coming off gracious, interested and curious, and not a bridezilla (which, btw, I don’t think you’re being). 

maybe after you hear the reason she gives, you could offer to buy the real ones and she can do the trail run.  or, keep questioning her reason if it doesn’t sound like a valid one, until she gives in or gives a better reason. 

good luck!!!

Post # 5
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3866 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

ahhhhh… I completely understand both sides.  I think since you offered to purchase the flowers, it shouldn’t be a problem, especially since this is a side-job for her.  I also understand wanting to be certain that what she does is what you’ll get!  especially since you’ll be paying her to do it (i’m guessing on that, lol). 

hopefully she’ll get back to you soon, accept your offer, and have a very awesome arrangement (or at least the photos you take before they dry/die) for you that you can drool over until your wedding 😉

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