Flower girl ideas please!

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2831 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

could they hand out programs?

Post # 4
125 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

ring bearers?

Post # 5
9949 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

You could have them walk the younger girls down the aisle, or just have them all walk.  I had my three nieces (ages 4, 6, and 8) walk down.  

Post # 7
2787 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@MrsHullToBe:  All I can say is “BANNER BEARERS”, and I didn’t like the Here Comes The Bride Sign, So we had our monogram as the banner. 

I too had 4 girls to try to fit in, so I made the older ones “Banner Bearers” (I even had that title in our programs..so their postition as banner bearers was official)…funny enough I had issues with my aunt because she didn’t like that fact that I didn’t just call them flower girls…umm my wedding aunty, thanks!! (lol)


coming down the aisle, I had them come after all the wedding party, right before my entrance

I also had them exsit in front of us for the recessional

Admittingly the sign was supposed to be not wrinkled, and have a bar attached to the top so both can hold on, but there was a issue with printing a week before the wedding, and my friend (who was my invite designer), had to bring it the day of the wedding, litterally right before the ceremony. But it still looked good. 



Post # 8
7025 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@MrsHullToBe:  My personal opinion is “all of none”. i.e. either have all 4 girls in the bridal party, or none, to avoid hurt feelings. 7 years old is a perfect age for a flower girl. Or they could be junior bridesmaids instead.

EDIT: In answer to your later post – I’ve never seen 4 flower girls done (except in the Prince William/Kate Middleton wedding), but I don’t see why not. If you’re worried about crowding, they could sit in the front row after walking down the aisle.

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