Flower Girl Question….More STRESS!!!

posted 3 years ago in Ceremony
  • poll: How should the flower girls walk down the aisle
    The three flower girls walks down the aisle together : (22 votes)
    42 %
    Each flower girl walks down the aisle on their own : (30 votes)
    58 %
  • Post # 3
    2878 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I’d think they would walk down one at a time (close to eachother)

    Post # 4
    686 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Yeah i’d go one at a time but only a few seconds apart

    Post # 5
    382 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    one at a time 🙂 not to close or to far between the walks.when one flower girl is half down the alse the other can start to walk

    Post # 6
    464 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    @Principessa Bunny:  I am not sure. I would think you would want them all to walk together but I agree with it looking like it might be cramped.

    How is your venue laid out?

    I used to go to a church that, with two flower girls, one could walk up each aisle. If you have something like this it might make a difference.

    Do they all have to be flower girls?

    At my first wedding we had a bell ringer. He was too scared to walk down the aisle but he could have.

    I have also seen photos on Etsy.com with signs that say “here comes the bride” maybe the third could be that girl.

    I am just not sure about them walking individually either, that seems like overkill. Maybe, send them staggered. Like send one to the left of the aisle then 5 seconds later send the second to the right, then 5 seconds later send the last to the left again. I definitely would not send them too far apart.

    Post # 7
    261 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    Do you have a ring bearer? Maybe one could walk with the ring bearer?

    Post # 8
    1822 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013 - Pavilion overlooking golf course scenery, reception at banquet hall

    We had two flower girls, and they followed each other maybe 2 feet apart. The 2 year old followed the 4 year old, who was told to walk towards “Daddy” (best man)

    Post # 9
    428 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    How about have the 6-7 year old walk up first and then the two 8 year olds walk a couple of feet behind her next to each other?  Like a triangle of flower girls?

    Post # 10
    464 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I went to a wedding today with this same situation. There were 3 flower girls and 6 bridesmaids and the MOH. The first flower girl came out ahead of the bridesmaids, then the second came out ahead of the MOH and the third and ring bearer came out before the bride.

    Post # 11
    35 posts
    • Wedding: March 2014

    My first instinct would be to have them walk down the aisle on their own, but close together.  We will have 4 flower girls and I planned on having that part be the “flower girl parade” lol. 

    It might seem cramped if the girls walk next to each other, and kids can be clumsy so walking alone could avoid a domino effect if anything does go weird!

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