- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
Hi everyone! I’m new to this site and need advice from people other than my family on this one. I can’t decide whether or not to have a ring bearer and flower girl(s) at my wedding. My sister has two little girls (ages 6 & 7) and a little boy (age 2–will be one month away from 3 yrs. old by the wedding), and I know she is expecting me to ask them to be my flower girls and ring bearer. The problem that I have is that they are not well-behaved children, especially the boy. He hardly ever minds adults–especially anyone other than his parents, and sometimes even that’s a stretch. The girls can be good, but they tend to get their little brother going, and then all 3 of them are arguing. I don’t want them being disrespectful or causing a scene at my wedding, but I’m also afraid that if I don’t ask them to be in the wedding, my sister will really get her feelings hurt and I don’t want that either. Please help!