Post # 1
OK, my finace and I have 4 nieces and 1 nephew. One of my niece will be a junior bridesmaid as she will be old enough. So, my other two nieces are the flower girls. My finace has a niece that will be two years old. I’m unsure if I should have her in the wedding as well? Ughh.. I feel bad and don’t want to leave her out but really three flower girls? isnt that a bit much??
Post # 3
In my opinion, the more flower girls the better. If you want 3, go for it.
Post # 4
I think you should go for it! I have two nieces (will be 4 & 6 at wedding) two nephews ( who will be 7 1/2 and almost 3) my Fiance has a niece ( will be almost 3) and a nephew (not quite a year come wedding time) We are having them all except his little nephew. I think it will be great… But also know that since the little ones are unpredictable they may not decide to walk down the aisle. But I’m happy we have included them regardless.
Post # 5
I’d say go for three. No reason to leave just one out. 🙂
Post # 6
If you think she’ll walk down the aisle sure, why not!?
Post # 7
It’s YOUR wedding. If you have any reservations than stick with what your gut is nagging at. There is a reason you didnt jump on the idea of having 3. I had 0 flower girls in my wedding. You can always give all of them other special duties during the day (putting corsages on the mothers, helping cut the cake, greeting people at the doors, you can practically MAKE up anything and they will be so excited to help. They should really be the least of your worries.. I dont mean to sound blunt, but honestly, its YOUR day, the kids wont remember any of it, but you will.
Post # 8
Why not just throw her in there? I don’t think it could hurt! Maybe have the 2 older girls pulling her in a cute wagon? Or have 2 of them waving ribbon wands while one holds a cute here comes the bride banner or something? It’s up to you though!
Post # 9
I have 2-nearly 3 yr old ring bearers, and 3 flower girls, who are 4, 5 and 7. The 7 yr old is going to act as ring bearer wrangler, she is going to be between the two little guys, holding their hands down the aisle. So all 3 girls get to be in the wedding, and none of the little people in our family are left out.