- 8 years ago
- Wedding: September 2010
ughhh, just another wedding vent, i’ll try to keep it short.
over the holiday weekend we found out that FMIL’s guest list is double what FI had originally thought. mind you, it’ll by a thin hair, keep us under max capacity at our venue… and it wont change our price too much, (as it’s just a minimum we have to meet and we were going to adjust our menu if necessary)… i am REALLY annoyed at the fact that she is inviting ppl that FI does not even know and ppl SHE doesn’t really care for… just in hopes that they send us a gift/money.
i mean ppl like HER cousins she hasn’t seen in years, her DOCTOR?!, FFIL’s old employees from 10+ years ago… and the list goes on.
FI and i are not money/gift grubbing and we DON’T feel it’s etiquette to invite ppl JUST for A GIFT?!!?!?!?!!!
alkdfjl;asdjf ughhh… i think i am just fed up with FMIL’s characteristic to HOARD… and this just tipped me over the edge.
so here i am, on etsy, having to order 50 emergency invites, because she has so many ppl (that prolly won’t even show up to the wedding), that she wants to send a wedding invite to…
thanks for listening. i really do love her dearly and her intentions are good… but she is just SO pushy about what she wants and there’s not telling her otherwise. thank GOD she’s let me do everything else about the wedding 🙂