Post # 1
- Wedding: September 2016 - Our Castle
Hi, as per previous post, i dont have a MOH anymore and might even loose her as a friend?!
I am Honestly thinking of having my FMIL as my MOH?! she is my very close friend and i have lived with her for 5.5yrs! I would be honored to have her by my side because no matter what happens we sort it out and are cool again.. p.s. she would be around for all events and caterers apointments etc.. she was with me when i picked my dress..
Post # 2
If you’re close with her I dont see a problem with having your FMIL as your MOH. I’m sure she’d be flattered
Post # 3
That’s an interesting situation. At first it seems odd but I can’t really think of why. In the end you should do what makes you happy.
Post # 4
Mistress_K: I’m sure that would mean a lot to her! As long as it wouldn’t offend any close family like your mom or sister (I didn’t read your other thread to see if that would be an issue or not), that would be the only thing I can think of that you might want to consider. Otherwise, no rules on who can/cannot be MOH!
Post # 5
I’m gonna go against public opinion here because I believe that whom you choose to stand for you are there to support you and stand for YOU. Your FMIL, IMO, has a very specific role in that wedding ceremony: to support her son in his marriage to you. So…I’d let her do that for her son and not ask her to take an additional role on “your” side, ya know? Of course this is my two cents and you’re free to do as you wish.