- 8 years ago
- Wedding: March 2010
My FI and I recently moved in with his parents. We were living in our own apartment and my his mom said that if he wanted to go back to school (knowing he would quit work to do it) that we could move into their basement to save some money. I’ve lived with them before and I get along pretty well with his parents so I knew it wouldn’t be a big deal. I’m not saying his mom isn’t annoying at times but I’m sure I’m not amazing either at all moments of the day.
Anyways, my FI has been a Freemason for longer then I’ve known him (which is around two and half years). His parents don’t agree with the Masons so he hasn’t told him that he joined. My parents don’t know either. He’s had this dirty shirt with a Mason symbol stitched on it for a while now. I went to wash it today knowing that we’d have to put it in our room before we left for the night. We came back to find his shirt neatly folded on the bed–we didn’t do it so she was obviously snooping in our room. I don’t know why she would though because she didn’t put anything of ours down here after we left (she picks up the house and sets anything of ours that is upstairs downstairs or whatever even though I’m always picking up my stuff). On top of that we had sex while she was gone and there was *ahem* handcuffs still on the bedframe. I thought my FI had put them away but I guess not.
Now I’m really frustrated with her. I’m kind of feeling violated. I know she is helping us move in but she didn’t have any reason to come in our room while we were gone. Am I over reacting? After all it is her house…