(Closed) FMIL… Do you have to know everything??

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
466 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

The only answer I can see is… move. Honestly. Fiance and I did that and it wasnt a huge move (20mins from both sets of parents), but let me tell you that 20mins makes so much difference. We went from being over FIL’s house 3 times a week to seeing them once a month. Ahhh, so nice.

Post # 4
5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

dinner every night??    change the locks and phone number or move  – this will not get better until you change the bad habits and stop over sharing

Post # 5
14 posts
  • Wedding: March 2012

I agree with the above posts. My future in laws live in the next town, and I would be damned if I saw them even once a week. Fiance on the other hand lets himself get guilted into going over once a week (his father is recently retired, and is lonely). You have to set the boundries now, because nothing will change unless you do. As far as her wanting to know everything, I would just say “sorry, it’s a surprise” End of conversation.

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