(Closed) FMIL helping shop for my ring

posted 8 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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624 posts
Busy bee

I think the decision is up to you two whether you want her to help shop.  I would be kind of annoyed if they got the ring she wanted for me.  It’s not about her.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

Ooh- I would be totally annoyed.  He should pick it out himself.  It’s one of the biggest gifts he’ll ever give you!

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

wow…………….   seriously?  I would be very uncomfortable with that.  I dunno though, prepare for the worst but hope for the best 🙂  Good luck

Post # 7
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Busy bee

Can you go to her and tell her what you want? I mean if you act all giddy about the idea, it would be hard not to honor your wishes.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Eh, I understand why you’re nervous.  It’s really great that she’s supportive and excited enough about your engagement that she wants to help, but I would be nervous about getting a ring that FMIL wants, rather that one that YOU want.  I agree with sulaii; maybe you should show her want you want? 

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