Post # 1
Stupid me unknowingly set our wedding date on FMIL’s husband’s 50th birthday. This is not FI’s dad, this is his stepfather.
Anynow. FMIL is planning a birthday party for her husband. It will take place immediately after the rehersal dinner. Obviously, only FMIL’s friends and family are invited to this birthday bash.
Is it just me or is this totally crazy?
Post # 3
I think it mostly odd for two reasons
1) why wouldnt she invite your parents? That just seems polite
2) and I wouldnt want to have it the day before a wedding.
but, I am not sure I really a problem, technically, with it except for not extending an invite to everyone at the rehearsla. I am just not sure why she would want to do it.
Post # 4
It kinda sucks because FI and I wanted to hang out with all of our OOT guests after the rehersal dinner. But half of the OOT guests will be at this birthday bash and the other half won’t.
FI told her that we’re skipping the birthday party so we can hang out with the people who are there to see us.