Post # 1
so my FMIL just had her 4th child this evening. at first my fiance and i were upset as she doesnt know the father or work and basically acts like a partying 16 year old. but we got to see him and he is just so precious. but we are still worried about it all and hoping she stops partying so much. we are only 23 and act more mature. we live about 5 hours from her but plan on visiting as much as possible so my fiance can get to know his new little brother!!!!
Post # 3
she’s probably gonna have kids and grandkids the same age :-S
anyway i hope you guys have the time and means to help her out and i hope that there is some end to her poor decisions. Good Luck!
Post # 4
Good luck, at least she is lucky to have the two of you as a support system.
Post # 5
Unfortunately, you can’t change her behavior.
Which is why I think it’s especially important for you and your FI to be there for her kids–and it’s wonderful that you are.
Post # 6
Wow, How old is she? My mum’s partner is 45, she gave birth to their baby in April, and I’m 21. It was a little weird, but They had been trying for a long time with IVF.