- 3 years ago
- Wedding: July 2014
Just need an opinions.
FI and I have lived together for 8 years. His mom has had very odd attachment issues with him. She threw a fit when he moved out and barely talked to us for a year. She’s always pushed me to the side. So recently..
FI gets a text from his mom “are you are and ____ following tradition and sleeping separately the night before the wedding? We just redid the guest room.” which in itself not bad…. FI responds “no we are staying at a hotel near the venue.” Then FMIL responds “oh OK… Just thought you’d like to spend one last night at home.”
i wouldnt be annoyed if she was asking in his best interest. Clearly one of her attachment issues is popping up again. If she was actually involved in our lives or took any interest in our wedding than I don’t think I would’ve minded as much. But i don’t know why but I feel like she’s crossing a line and I can’t explain why.