- 3 years ago
- Wedding: February 2014
So my FMIL is pushing my fiancé and I to do a marriage preparation class! its to the point that she is telling me what my fiancé and I need to discuss at counselling!
my fiancé and I have to do a course for our officiant to marry us & were booked to go but we haven’t told her. Not that it’s really her business anyway.
its not like my fiancé and I have problems communicating anyway, we tell each other everything! Make decisions together, plan together, and never make a big decision without the both of us feeling comfortable to do so. It’s how we have always been!
I just don’t understand why she is being so pushy! At our engagement party she was going around telling my family she never thought her son would propose to me and she has constantly been rude about our wedding. This often upsets me, but my fiancé always tells me to ignore her, he always lets her know when she has gone too far. Unfortunately I struggle to respond to her crude and rude antics at times mainly because I’m in disbelief over some of the things she has said…
but I’m well over the “advice” she is giving me about me and my fiances rship! God forbid if we have a baby I just can’t imagine what she will be like!
This makes me feel like she doesn’t want her son to marry me. my fiance won’t speak with her when she is like this to me and just cuts communication, but I hate giving people the silent treatment and family is so important to me. Often when he does this, she is so nice to me and will always text/message me nice things. Talk about mixed messages…
she is so controlling and pushy and rude and I am so over it 🙁 fiancé and I just wanna move away from her so we can build our happy little life in peace!