FMIL pushing my fiance and i to do marriage prep class!?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
7654 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@bs942:  Toughie, but she just needs to butt out. I loved marriage prep classes. We did ours through a social worker though, and I am so happy we took that route. No matter how well you communicate, they are so beneficial and help you understand each other even better.

That being said though, your FMIL doesn’t need to be so involved in your relationship. You will either need to follow suit with your FI and ignore her when she gets this way, or just kill her with kindness and say “Sure. We will consider it.”

 

Post # 4
Member
9412 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@bs942:  You have to do what is best for you and your FI, not his mother. She is not involved in your relationship and one of you (preferably him) needs to make that clear.

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