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Once we hit the 3 year mark (about 6 months before DH popped the question) i noticed a change in the relationship. less strained, more accepting. I felt much more comfortable. Perhaps this was my finally accepting the fact that I would soon be part of his family too.

All the changes since the wedding have been positive! Well since I moved to StL, in general. She calls me up to do lunch or dinner (even though hubs is 12 hours away) and today called to see if i wanted to meet up for lunch with her, her mom, her sister, and her niece since they were trying on MOB dresses (for the niece's wedding) right down the street. I couldn't, but it's always nice to be included! When she talks to me about DH and I having kids, it's always very respectful and she prefaces it by saying, "if you two decide to have a family" instead of just bugging us about when =]

The big test will be how it all pans out when DH finally moves back to the city after bieng in the military for 4 years in november. it'll be family overload for this girl but it'll also be a nice experience and once the excitement of him finally being home wears off, we'll settle into a routine. he fully understands that i am not expected to nor required to attend all these family lunchs/dinners/random get togethers as I work 40 hours a week and am in school part time if i have something of importance going on.