- 5 years ago
- Wedding: July 2013
Okay let me preface this by saying that my Fi brother just got married in November, and that side of the family did one combine shower for both the mom and dads family.
well an aunt from my Fiance mom side of the family approached me to check a few days for a shower she wants to throw. I okayed a date with her and that was it.
fast forward 2 weeks an an aunt from my fi dad side of the family approached me on shower themes, I thought for the same one, then at the end of the convo she brought up dates. I told her I’d have to get back to her.
I assumed if they did a shower it would be combined as well, but I didn’t want to tell her that the other side was planning one and picked a date, because maybe she didn’t like it combined for Future Sister-In-Law. so I spoke to Future Mother-In-Law and she was like nope she can’t do her own it will all be together and that’s that.
Now normally I love her,but that really took me back. like what the heck? if they want to have 2 parties I won’t tell them no. so I don’t know what to do except just play dumb?
what would you do? ??