- 4 years ago
- Wedding: April 2014
My sister who is my MOH and my other 2 bridesmaid along with my mom are planning on throwing my bridal shower. Were having it at my appartment building cause we have a little party room. The room doesnt fit that many people so were just planning on inviting a few close friends and relatives. All was going good until I told my FMIL about it and she starts telling me I have to invite half their side of the family. Im fine inviting these people to the wedding where my fiance who actually knows them will be there. But as this is MY shower and I have only met these people like once or twice and some not at all, I have no reason to invite them, especially when theres hardly any room! Her bridal shower had over 800 people (no idea how she managed that) and i think shes trying to do the same to me. i got a few people from his side coming like a few of his cousins cause one of them is one of my bridesmaids and his grandmas but i dont need his aunts and other stray relatives. Shes telling me the food i have to serve and i have to have favors and centerpeices. first of all, im not doing any of it, my girls are so im not paying for any of it, they are. i have no intention of telling them to do any of her ideas cause frankly they all suck so far. if she doesnt like it too bad. its my wedding, not hers!