- 5 years ago
- Wedding: July 2013
My FIs parents are divorced. his dad isnt involved in his life what so ever. anyways, his mom has a bf that has been around for 10 yrs or so. nice guy and all but lately they have been on again off again. i swear every time i talk to her its “yeah we are trying it one more time” or “we are just friends” (but he still lives there ehh). well as of now they are “just friends” but he is still planning on coming to our wedding. heres my problem…she expects him in the pictures. the group picture sure but family pictures?? i dont want him in it just bc in 10 yrs who knows what they will be and i dont want her ex in the pic. FI agrees with me but said just do seperate pics (he doesnt like dealing with his mom so it falls on me- hes too passive). it seems like a hassle to take an extra set and a waste of money to buy those pics for his mom who is the only one who wants them. its not HER wedding if she wants him in wedding pics she should marry him…oh wait…their off again…mehhhhh….
Am i being selfish/bridezilla? these are life time pics…idk what to do