- 7 days ago
- Wedding: May 2019
So my FMIL and I have not gotten along for about 8 or so months now. We have both been pretty rude to each other, and she is constantly talking about me behind my back. For the past several months, I have been going out of my way to email her and text her offering help with her move (she is moving this month) and trying to mend fences. She’s the kind of person who thinks she can do no wrong and so I know talking it out will get me nowhere. If she could see that she is doing things wrong and be willing to accept an apology and give one, I would be glad to move on. I have already gotten past most of the terrible things she’s done to me… (I won’t even get in to it, but basically all I’ve done is call her a bitch to my FSIL, still not okay but pales in comparison) When my FH told her he was going to propose to me, she was supportive to him, but definitely not pleased. When we told her we were engaged the first thing she had to say was “It’s going to be a long engagement, right?”… like she wants us to break up before the wedding actually happens. She hasn’t reached out to either of us about the wedding and will just ignore it if we talk about it. I really want to figure things out with her because I know it hurts my FH, and it’s really going to get either of us nowhere if this continues. Any advice???