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    JerzyLady    August 20, 2011  

    FI and I just got home from taking the FOCUS test (150 questions about your relationship where you  need to agree, disagree or uncertain).

    Some of the questions were rather 'tricky' to answer since we'll have to review them with the priest.

    anyone feel the same way?

     

     
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    sapphirelady15    April 2012   STL

    As in awkward? Yeah. What's the kicker? We scored lowest on the religion questions and highest on the sex and communication sections. Awwwwwkwarrrrd. LOL!! Ah well, might as well be honest.

     
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    amariem25    October 2009  

    The priests don't really care that much.  At least ours didn't.  They are there to help you!

     
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    Sunshine1810    October 8, 2011   New Hampshire

    I felt like a lot of the questions were tricky.  I am not looking forward to going over it with our priest, but we'll get through it I'm sure!

     
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    blacktiebride01    May 20, 2011  

    I did think they were tricky, but thank God that we did pretty good on it... I honestly feel that the priest isn't there to judge you, but he is just trying to make sure you are aware of some differences you may not have discussed...They aren't going to say you can't get married if you miss a lot... But I do agree that some of those questions seemed like they were trying to trip you up.

     
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    Usually you go over topics not questions.  For example, you might have 15 questions on religion.  If you disagree on one or two, it's ok.  If you disagree on seven or eight, you go over general issues regarding religion, not necessarily the specific questions on the test.

     
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    Dsquared    November 11, 2011  

    @JerzyLady: I SOOO feel this way, but I answered honestly so we could discuss all our concerns.

    What specific questions bothered you?

     

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