For bees that are newly single or starting a new relationship

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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8419 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@beemyname:  why would you lose your friend just because he is dating someone?  I have quite a few guy friends that are in relationships, it doesn’t interferre with our friendships.

Post # 5
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2174 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Are you worried that you’re losing a friend because he has a girlfriend and you are single?  Do you have feelings for him?  Are you jealous that he was with someone else and not you?

I think you’re reading too far into it, unless you are looking for something more from this particular friend.

Post # 7
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7279 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Huh? You want your friends that you’re not interested in to want you? is that what I’m reading?

I think you are simply looking to have your ego stroked (we all do at one point) but its not for your male “freinds” to fill in that void. After all they are “freinds” right?

As for the one friend that you are interested in, maybe he’s just not into you. Just because your “compatiable” that doesn’t automatically equal relationship material.

 

 

 

Post # 10
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451 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

You shouldn’t necessarily look to your male friends for a potential new boyfriend. Try to meet new people.

Post # 11
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7279 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@beemyname:  I guess I would rather that the guys that are interested would be just as  compatible.  I don’t know why the ones that seem compatible are not  interested.

Oh well thats just life LOL. If more people could figure out that mystery, then there would be less single people in the world. I agree with @MaryKay14: you just need to cast out a bigger net. Do activities that you like and let the cards fall where they may.

Post # 13
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2174 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

It seems to me that you actually have cool guy friends who respect friend boundaries and aren’t trying to be creepers or make things weird by hitting on you.  Or maybe, your guy friends don’t like you romantically at all.  And that’s ok, too.  Just because you’re friends with someone doesn’t mean you’d make a good couple.

If you have feelings for one of your guy friends, why don’t you make a move?  Why do you expect them to do the work if you’re the one wanting something more?

Post # 15
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11668 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@beemyname: Does he know you like him and would be interested in dating him? Maybe he was just concerned about ruining the friendship or perhaps he just doesnt’ see you in that way.  I’m very anti dating friends because it always turns awkward and has never worked out for me personally.

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