For bees who moved around a lot or bees with long distinct friends

posted 2 years ago in Long Distance Relationships
Post # 2
2038 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015 - Ruby Princess


Post # 3
7518 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Can they come visit you instead? Or meet in a city that you both want to visit?

Post # 4
8739 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Why can’t you stay with any of your friends?



ETA: Hotels are also a thing.

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Post # 5
437 posts
Helper bee

When I visit my long distance friends, I stay at their houses…

Post # 6
6566 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

We visit long distance friends a couple of times a year and simply stay at their house (and they stay at ours when they visit). Is this not an option?

What about a hotel? Or meeting in the ‘middle’ somewhere and splitting hotel costs?

Post # 7
996 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

Stay with them, arrange a “friends vacation weekend”, or just use Skype or become email pen pals.

Post # 9
6566 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Ap2010:  what about a hotel or asking to come visit and stay with you? 

Post # 10
192 posts
Blushing bee

We have skype dates were we drink wine, talk on skype and surf the internet together.. wine makes skyping more fun


Otherwise I visit them, they visit me and we usually stay at each other’s houses. A friend’s vacation weekend is also a good idea!


We also have whatsapp texting threads with a few of us on each thread so we can chat throughout the day.. its like they live in my pocket haha

Post # 11
1498 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Ap2010:  Do these friends want you to visit them?  Not trying to sound rude, but if they’re your friends surely they’d want to host you.

A friend and I recently visited a city where we used to live.  It was a last minute trip and we didn’t want to impose on anyone, so got a hotel.  When we met up with our friends, they were all like WTH why didn’t you stay with us??

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