- 7 years ago
- Wedding: January 2012
Inspired on the topic “why people make fun of merriage” I had just remembered something that broke my heart.
Im the first of my friends to get married…when i anounced our engagement my best friend (or former bf) said to me some very hurtful things, like… “how awful, im so sad, or this is horrible i need some time to process it” She never congratulated us, and when i asked her why would she say something like that, she said because everything would change like we wouldnt be able to hang out or something like that.
¿¿?? wtf! Ive been with my Fiance for almost 8 years and living together for 2 years before we got engaged, its not like I met a guy and next week im married.
My Fiance is nothing but supportive of anythig I want to do, i have never “asked for permision” to go out with my friends or else and I talked to him just to be clear about his and my expectations for the marriage…and seems to be that nothing its going to change we are a young couple and we trust each other.
Later having that discussion he confessed to me that he asked her on facebook inbox to help him find me an e-ring a month or 2 before he proposed AND SHE DIDNT ASWERED THE INBOX HE SENT!!
I talked about it with another close friend to understand why she would do something like that… she says that my bf never recived that message..is that possible?? i saw the inbox message myself from my Fiance s facebook acount!
im so hurt..why would she do something like that???