Post # 1
Fiance and I work for the same company so we have decided to invite both of our departments. In total it will add about a dozen people to our guest list.
For those inviting co-workers, are you sending them STD’s or just invitations?
Post # 3
I’m not because they’re on my ‘b-list’ lol.
Post # 4
of course! they’re invited just like anyone else, so why wouldn’t you send them the same things?
Post # 5
@kate169: They’re on our “B List” too. That’s why I wasn’t sure how to go about it…
Post # 6
Yes! I work in small organization of all women so i sent the STD to their office (I work in a regional office so they all work together at our main office) and they loved getting it at work! 🙂 Word spread quick and it was fun to hear their excitment! Fiance mailed his close co-workers an STD to their homes.
Post # 7
Yes just because I love my co workers and I want them to have our cute Save-The-Date Cards that I made.
Post # 8
We decided not to send co-workers stds. There is a chance that I won’t be working at the same place when the wedding rolls around and I don’t hang out with these ladies outside of work, so I don’t feel guilty. If I’m still here around the wedding, they will get an invite.
Post # 9
We are only inviting FI’s work and I dont’ want to. We will send invitation but since its really more of a curteousy rather than we really want you to come I felt the invitation would be enough.
Post # 10
Nope, not sending to co-workers for fear of changing jobs (not that we’re planning on it, but you just never know).
Post # 11
well if they’re on your b-list, definitely don’t send stds. anyone who gets an std has to get an invitation.
Post # 12
I figured I wouldn’t at first, but if I had enough left after I sent out my “A list” STD’s I could give them to my co-workers…lol
We have a group break area with a fridge, etc in our department. Since our STD’s are magnets I thought about just putting one on the fridge and leaving it at that. :o)
Post # 13
No, I dont think we will. I just started somewhere new, and who knows how that will go. We have been debating inviting some of my FI’s co-workers, because they sometimes hang out, but they’re on the B list. So…. no Save the Date for them. We’ll see as it gets closer what we want to do.
Post # 14
I did not because anything can change and I would rather not send the save the date then send it and then someone (even me) stops working there.
Post # 15
yes. i hand-delivered the stds
Post # 16
If you or FH change jobs, or if any of your co-workers change jobs, will you still want them at the wedding? If not, don’t send Save-The-Date Cards, because then you’ll be obligated to send an invitation.