For those who think I am a stupid bitch for doing what I did.. (rant)

posted 3 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

@Jacqui90:  I don’t think anyone here called you those names? Unless I just missed those.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

I’m all about obeying the rules. Just give people a CHANCE. Maybe as they keep on writing, they will explain what they meant better. Maybe their original post didn’t accurately convey what they wanted to, but throughout comments, they can get out what they really meant. Just don’t be so quick to jump on it.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@Jacqui90:  most of the chickens don’t post here, so they can’t contact you directly. 

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I think the issue was proclaiming it. Flag anything you want, but when you start proclaiming it, I think it comes across as “tattle tale” a little bit. I’ve seen much worse posts on here as far as “breaking the rules” and that post seemed kind of silly in a way.

 

Maybe it’s just me, but unless someone is being personally attacked or it is a very obviously malicious post, I’m not sure why you bother. If I open a post, think it’s ridiculous, I then just leave the post. I don’t flag it and proclaim that I flagged it…

 

 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@LeonardLady:  Agree with this. It’s internet speak. And very hard to read intentions behind a post many times.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@Jacqui90:  I think you are posting this thread because you feel hurt, & I understand that, I really do. People have jumped on me before & said hurtful things as well, but I really think you should shut this thread down yourself because it’s not worth it.

 

@LeonardLady:  Please, just leave this thread alone. Let’s not pretend you meant anything you didn’t say in your original post. How do you come back from that & explain your way out of it? You meant what you said, & it was offensive. It should have been closed, & it was. Case closed.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

@MrsSkeletonKey:  Woah, wait, what? She made a post, and I responded. I don’t think I said anything wrong.

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@Jacqui90:  I guess I don’t understand why you care that these “mean girls” or whatever said about you. It is the internet a bunch of people from all walks of life. We all have our opinions and if OMG some one doesn’t like me or needs to talk about me go for it, not going to hurt my feelings. 

 

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

@Jacqui90:  I don’t know if I am just really dumb or what… but I am so confused! lol. How did someone call you that if they didn’t post? I am legitimately confused.

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Ooooooh myyyy.

Seriously, OP lighten up. This post does you no favors in not appearing hyper sensitive.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

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