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Formal Wedding Gown and Almost Casual Groom?!

posted 1 year ago in Beehive
  • poll: What do you think of brides in a formal wedding gown with a casual groom?
    Love it! Great option for my FI who hates to dress up. : (2 votes)
    11 %
    Wait... what?! Come on, groom! Get dressed up. : (8 votes)
    44 %
    Not my preference but whatever works for them is good with me. : (8 votes)
    44 %
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    Helper bee
    FallFlowers      

    I've been noticing an "interesting" trend in some of my friends' weddings.  The bride wears a beautiful, formal floor length wedding gown while the groom wears kahki pants and, in one case a polo shirt and in another case a button down long sleeve without a tie.  My husband gets more dressed up as a guest at weddings we are invited to!  This just looks so odd to me - the bride looks like a princess while the groom looks like, well, just about anyone!  I can understand if the whole wedding is casual but when the bride is in a formal gown, seeing a casual groom throws me off!  I'd love to hear thoughts on this!  Is anyone a fan of this?  If so, why?  Does anyone else find this unusual?

     
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    Busy bee
    twocatcupcake    September 17, 2010   Fargo, ND

    I think a lot of brides don't really take into consideration how their dress fits in with the rest of their theme.  I think they see one they love and go with it.

     
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    Blushing bee
    namarie    July 4, 2010  

    My husband wore a suit with no tie and I wore a formal lace gown.  We had a very laid-back wedding (in July in NC. . . . so it was very hot!) and my thought was that if I got to wear what I wanted to wear on my wedding day then he should get to wear whatever made him happy on his wedding day as well.  For him, that meant not having to wear a tie in 90 degree heat.  Now I look back at the pictures of us together and he looks so handsome and stylish that I think all men should go without ties!

     
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    Helper bee
    FallFlowers      

    @namarie: I don't consider a suit with no tie to be casual!  It's more of the kahki pants with random casual shirt that bothers me.  I'm glad that you liked how he looked when you saw him!  That's the important part! Smile

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    Personally - I think it looks silly.  Now I'm not saying the groom has to be in a tux or anything but for a wedding a certain level of formality should be expected, especially when the bride is in a very formal gown.  It's sad and slightly embarressing when your guests out-dress you, IMO.

     
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    Sugar bee
    sloth    May 14, 2011   Philadelphia, PA

    Eh, I don't care. I think that everyone should be able to wear whatever they want to their wedding.

     

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