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    Just wanted to start a thread so it could be added to the "mothering" tips sticky!  Here are a few from me:

    • Do not let anyone make you feel bad about formula feeding.  As long as you are informed about the options, your choice is absolutely legitimate.  There are a lot of positives to formula feeding that are not often emphasized, such as physical autonomy (you can have a night away once in awhile!), ability to feed anywhere without worry, Dad's (and others') ability to participate in feeding, and a lack of stress regarding feeding (which your baby most likely senses!).  Be confident and at peace if you feel that formula feeding is right for you.
    • Our baby had trouble processing Enfamil Newborn, so we switched to Gerber Good Start Gentle and that has been much better.  I know everyone has different experiences, just thought I'd share!

    Please post if you have other tips or experiences to share!

     
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    flamingred    June 19, 2010  

    The fact that formula is an option REALLY helped me get through that first month of learning to nurse. it took a TON of pressure off of me mentally, and I ended up LOVING to nurse my DD. I seriously thank the formula for the relief during those really painful lonely days when i was learning.  =)

     
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    Lozza    September 1, 2007  

    We're just about to start supplementing with formula (DS is 6 months old). We've never used it before (my supply has dropped a ton in the last 6 weeks, but we had a bunch of frozen milk that we've been using), but I want to have some with us for a trip out of town this weekend, since we can't bring frozen breastmilk, and I don't think my supply will suffice. Here's my question: I've brough bottles of breastmilk through security with me before, with no problems... can I bring a bottle of pre-made liquid formula through security too? With the breastmilk, they didn't ask me to open it up or taste it or anything, but I wouldn't have minded demonstrating to them that I was willing to feed it to my kid. But with the formula, I know they say you're supposed to use or discard within 2 hours of opening, so I don't really want to open it up just for security.

    Any tips?Do I just need to buy powder instead? (and if so, should I bring my own water, or can I just buy bottled water in the airport and use that?)

    Sorry to sound dumb, I've never had to think about this before and I'm not sure what supplies I need!

     
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    MsMamaBear       Atlanta

    I pumped breastmilk for a month (latching problems)before my milk supply dropped. I like how formula comes in ready to use on the go containers, so you don'thaveto have a bottle already made, just open that.

    I guess my tip is keep a on-the-go container in the baby bag. So much easer!

     

     
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    regberadaisy    August 14, 2010  

    I LOVE this. There is SO much information out there pro-breastfeeding but knocks on formula. I have NO idea what we will do yet or how it will pan out. I do plan on BF but who knows what will happen? So thanks for this!

     
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    @Lozza:  I have taken pre-made (from powder) formula bottles through airport security and it went fine.  They tested it to make sure it was formula, but that was it.  I had mini-ice-paks with all the bottles, so I didn't mind using them after two hours.  (It was a 5 hour flight.)  Another option are the little mini "ready to feed" glass bottles of formula you can buy (along with disposable nipples).  They last for 6 months or more with no refrigeration!  Good luck!

     
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    miksje130    August 26, 2011   Gilbert

    @Lozza: Hey there, not a mom but I probably wouldnt buy the premade ones. Here are my thoughts on it. They can get pretty heavy if you bring a lot, the big cans are actually pretty light and maybe easier to bring with you in a diaper bag. A lot of the security people will make you throw out a new bottle with anything liqued. I once had a bottle of water that was totally closed and sealed off with the plastic on the lid but they made me throw it away because of security measures. Which brings me to my second point. I would buy the bottled water after you get through security.

     

    Hope this helps at least a little.

     
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    Miss Sapphire    December 2009   Seattle

    Personal thoughts:

    Similiac Advanced:  fed in the hospital.  We also had a lot of samples of this and found it suitible for the first 2 weeks...

     

    Enfamil LIPID:  horrible colored poo.  We're talking nasty olive green.  Didn't have any issues with it other than the color of the poo seriously turned me off of the formula.

     

    Similac Sensitive:  tried samples of this for a little over a week.  I did not notice any reduced gas or fussiness (as the outside of the can claims).  Our kid has a ton of gas to start with...

     

    Enfamil Sensitive:  see Enfamil above.  Same issue and no reduction in gas

     

    Costco/Kirkland Signature:  the fact that it is made by the same parent company as Similac and comes in at about 50% less than the name brands AND we are having no issues with it makes this a clear winner for us.

     

    Traveling with powedered formula:  I am a big fan of traveling with out premade bottles.  We have a little plastic formula holder (look on Amazon...lots of different options) and I take a big Nalagene of tap water from home if it's a road trip and make bottles as we need them.  If I am going shopping/downtown I may put water in the bottles and add the powder later.  Depends on how much weight I want to carry.

    For plane travel, I would do the same but not carry water.  Buying bottled water after the checkpoint is the easiest.  I am not a big fan of premaking bottles.

     

    Premade bottles/batches:  we make a bottle as needed.  Some people will make a big batch of the amount that they go through in 24 hours and then throw it in the fridge but our kid doesn't really like a cold bottle (room temp is fine) and I'm not really into warming them.  As long as you follow the directions, most say discard refridgerated bottles/formula after 24 hours, making a batch could save some time.

     

     

     
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    MsMamaBear       Atlanta

    @Miss Sapphire: I didn't know Costco's formula is the same as Similac. We use Similac Sensitive but maybe I should look into that one.

     
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    Miss Sapphire    December 2009   Seattle

    @MsMamaBear: Yep.  Abbot/Ross makes both the Costco one and Similac.  The Costco brand does not have a sensitive formula though.

     

    Also, OT, the Costco diapers used to just be rebranded Huggie's Supremes.  Our tyke doesn't like Huggies but if that's your go-to brand you may want to look into it.  If you go to the CS desk you can also sign up for their coupon books that are mailed to you and there is a coupon every month (on about a 4 month rotation) for one of their big baby products.  

     
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    pansyshell    October 8, 2010   Central Pa, Wedding in Outer Banks, NC

    DS is EBF, so I haven't had to use this and not completely sure how it works, but if you need specialized formula for medical reasons, there is assitance out there to offset the costs. If we were using formula DS would be on an AA based version that comes in around $40 a small can! This is something I would really look into if we ever had to switch.

     
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    Miss Sapphire    December 2009   Seattle

    Also, if you qualify for WIC, each state has certain formulas that they approve.

    Best place is to Google your state and "WIC approved formula list".  The proper lists will come up with a ".gov" URL.

     
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    Mrs. Spring    May 10, 2009   California

    @Lozza:  TSA should never ask you to taste the formula or breastmilk.  They may ask you to open a premade bottle, so they can do some testing on it, but you should be fine taking it through security without any trouble.  If you can, use the family security lane, and be sure to announce to the agents as you go through screening that you have some bottles with you.

    • We also used a few different kinds, and eventually ended up with Enfamil Soybee for Sensitive Tummies.  Neither Similac Advanced nor the Kirkland brand formulas worked for us.  I think it's important to consult your doctor on formula changes, though, because every baby is different and every baby tolerates changes in formula differently.
    • Let's see, we used the Born Free bottles, which come with an additional little disk to put in the top of the bottle to prevent formula from getting into the nipple.  We used to put a pre-measured amount of powder into the bottle, and then put it into the cabinet.  When Addie was hungry, we'd simply add the correct amount of warm tap water, and her bottle was ready in less than a minute.  If we were traveling, I put the little disk into the bottle, and that would keep the powder out of the nipple, even if the bottle got shaken up.
    • Another tip, sign up for free formula coupons on enfamil.com, similac.com, and/or gerber.com.  You can often print out coupons on these websites, too, which make the formula quite a bit cheaper. 
    • Lastly, formula feeding can be just as much of a bonding experience as breastfeeding.  You can still hold your baby close, cuddle him/her, look into his/her eyes, and even have skin to skin contact, if you want.  Feedings, wheteher from the breast or the bottle, are a special bonding time with your baby, and it's nice to have that time to sit down and relax together.  Take advantage of those little moments!
     
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    @Mrs. Spring: Agreed, whole-heartedly, on the bonding comment!  It's a myth that only breast-feeding allows bonding.  When Lauren was a newborn, I'd sometimes take off my shirt to give her a bottle, just to maximize skin contact.  :-)

     
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    MsMamaBear       Atlanta

    @Mrs. Spring: I agree. Once I wasn't able to breastfeed, I worried about bonding time when I fed her. Puhlease! We stare into each others eyes the whole time...unless them ilk runs out and she gets fussy.LOL I love feeding her. :)

     
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    Mrs. Spring    May 10, 2009   California

    @chicagowife:  @MsMamaBear:  My favorite part of feeding Addie was the moment she felt full and warm enough to look "milk drunk."  Ah, so cute! 

     
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    Lozza    September 1, 2007  

    Can I ask a question about poop? We've recently switched my almost-7-months-old DS to formula, and OH MY GOD the poop. It is constant, and gross. Seriously, this kid went from pooping once every few days to pooping constantly. My mom told me that she always thought formula had the opposite effect (pooping less often). Is this normal? Also, it kind of seems like DS is fussier about feeding than he was when he was just getting breastmilk. I'm wondering if we should try a different kind of formula... for those of you who tried a few, how long did you keep your baby on one kind to determine whether or not it worked?

     
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    Mrs. Spring    May 10, 2009   California

    @Lozza:  Hmmm, constipation is a pretty common problem with formula feeding, but if his body isn't reacting well to that formula, it may cause lots of stinky diapers...  Of course, it could just be a coincidence, and something else could be going on.  Addie always had way more (and way stinkier!) poop while she was teething, and sometimes she wouldn't want to eat if her teeth hurt, too.  I would give the new formula at least a couple weeks, and if he's still having these issues, ask your doctor what he/she recommends.  Most doctors will tell you to switch to a soy formula, if it seems like your baby is having issues tolerating regular milk formula.

     
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    MsMamaBear       Atlanta

    @Mrs. Spring: I love that look. She also likes to smack her lips when she finishes, like 'MMMmmm! Good!' lol

    @Lozza: we tried two and left her on it for a week to see any changes.

     
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    Goldilocks1107    September 2010   Madison, WI

    Question for those who didn't breastfeed at all - what impact did that have on your body? I'm not planning to breastfeed and just want to prepare myself for what that's going to feel like, before and after pregnancy.

    Thanks!

     
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    Mrs. Spring    May 10, 2009   California

    @Goldilocks1107:  What exactly are looking for comments on?  Boobs?  Weight loss?  Something else?

     
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    Goldilocks1107    September 2010   Madison, WI

    @Mrs. Spring: Boobs, leaking, pain as the milk supply dries up. The gamut of "awesomeness" I can expect.

     
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    Mrs. Spring    May 10, 2009   California

    @Goldilocks1107:  Lol, well, as far as I can tell, it's a similar process to what you'd expect with breastfeeding, except sooner after birth.  I breastfed and nursed for about 2.5 weeks with my first, but with this one, I'll start formula feeding in the hospital.

    Basically, within in the first few days after birth, your milk will come in.  Before that, you may leak a little bit, but you probably won't see much of a difference in your breasts.  When your milk comes in, your breasts will get very large and hard; think of it like porn star boobs, lol.  It can be uncomfortable and even painful for a few days to a week before the milk starts drying up.  After the initial week or so, your breasts will start to shrink and the pain should subside.  You may still leak milk for a few months afterward, and your breasts may not go back completely to their prepregnancy size.

    Some of the tips I used to help my milk dry up more quickly and to manage the discomfort:

    • Wear a tight-fitting sports bra or wrap your breasts tightly with an Ace bandage.  This will help support your breasts and it will keep the engorgement to a minimum.  Keep the bra/bandage on at all times; it'll hurt to take it off and your breasts will become more engorged.
    • Warm water and warm showers feel really good, but be sure to limit the amount of time you allow the warm water to run over your breasts.  5-10 minutes is about the limit, as the warm water will stimulate your breasts to start leaking/producing more milk.
    • When the engorgement/discomfort is really bad, you can manually express a little bit of the milk (Google "manual expression", and you'll get a ton of hits).  Try not to do this unless you really need to, and only express enough milk to relieve the pain.  Expressing too much will encourage your body to produce more milk and will extend the process.
    • After birth, you may be on some pain killers for a few days to a few weeks, depending on what kind of damage your body went through.  This will help with the breast pain, but you can also use cold cabbage leaves on your breasts to relieve some of the pain.  Just tuck a cold cabbage leaf in between your sports bra and breasts, and change it whenever it starts to get warm.
    • Finally, there are some herbs and some prescription medications that help dry up breast milk.  If you talk to your doctor about it ahead of time, you may have those available to you in the hospital, which would make the whole process a lot shorter and much more comfortable.
     
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    Goldilocks1107    September 2010   Madison, WI

    Great advice - I already have some tight-fitting sports bras to use (since my boobs have gone up a cup size already and I haven't upgraded to a sports bra that actually fits yet.

    I wouldn't have even thought about warm water being a stimulant for leaking/milk production - definitely good to know!

     

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