Found out something about my guy this weekend

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
4483 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

FI went once, way before more, and hated it. It doesn’t bother me. I’d prefer that he not go now, though, and he fortunately feels the same way 

Post # 3
9949 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I wouldn’t care at all…  Why do you care that he went skinny dipping??

Post # 5
15070 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I wouldn’t care at all if he wanted to go. Heck,  I’d go to the bank and get dollars for him if he asked. 

Post # 6
43300 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I wouldn’t care if he went to a strip club.

I would care if someone went skinny dipping in my pool without clearing that it was acceptable to us. I don’t care what people do in their own time and place. I do care what they do in my place and any discomfort they may have caused my other guests.

Post # 7
6566 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I wouldn’t mind if he went occasionally (and didn’t get a lap dance) but it would bug me if he went a lot.

Post # 8
1244 posts
Bumble bee

I wouldn’t care.  I’ve been into more strip clubs than he has.  The skinny dipping with kids around would upset me a bit.

Post # 9
2474 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I wouldn’t care if DH went. I know it’s not his scene, and I know he loves me and how I look. What do I care if he sees naked women?

Post # 10
1144 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: Seattle, WA

I wouldn’t mind, unless it became a regular habit.  Maybe once or twice a year for some guys night out event, wouldn’t really bother me i guess?  

Post # 11
280 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I can honestly say that I wouldn’t care if my FI went to a strip club. I know he’s not really into them and that he loves & adores me above all other women.

Post # 12
8294 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

If the fact that he used to go to strip clubs occassionally is the worst you ever find out about him you’ve got a great guy! 

Post # 14
1466 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

arosebyanyothername:  I would not want FI to go to a strip club. And he has no desire to either. So ha!

Post # 15
1987 posts
Buzzing bee

My husband used to go to them when he was younger. I really don’t care one way or the other. It’s not something that has any impact on our life now. 

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