Found out, soon to be engaged….Oops ): [ADVICE?]

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
5905 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

@EsC87:  …don’t over think this, you won’t have to “act” anything, because no matter how many times you’ve imagined it, the moment will still blow you away….and you don’t know what you’ve got, unti you’ve got it…so knock it off…put THIS out of your mind, wrap some gifts, bake some cookies and watch Christmas Vacation, its going to be great!

Post # 4
720 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@Nona99:  +1

I knew my proposal was coming. I found the ring box in his pocket that morning (I was looking for Chapstick) but didn’t open it – and I’m SO glad I didn’t see the ring beforehand. So yes, I knew it was happening, but when it actually did, it blew me away. It wasn’t how/when/where I expected it to be. Both the moment and the ring were perfect and your proposal will be too. You won’t have to act surprised, because you will be. Let it go! And don’t snoop or anything like that from here on out (I know you weren’t snooping).

Post # 7
1625 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@EsC87:  I want to see this hideous gaudy ring you think he picked out!

It seems like you guys have a good relationship, and hopefully there is a lot of honesty there. I’m sure you’ll be thrilled by the proposal, but if you really don’t like the ring, and he asks if you do, let him know it isnt what you would have picked out and its not your taste. See where it goes from there. Hopefully he will be open to getting you exactly what you want!

Post # 8
1349 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@EsC87:  You never know, you might like the ring on your finger, it might suit you!!

Post # 9
6158 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

@EsC87:  i knew the exact date of my proposal, just didn’t know the how.

it was the most amazing proposal.  i wasn’t surprised per say but i was still nervous and excited.


Post # 10
922 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I also knew when my proposal was coming, but in the moment, when its happening, it will still put you in a bit of shock and you won’t have to fake anything.

Just stop thinking about it, relax, and let it happen

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