- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
I’m regular member, but I’m logged in using another identity because I found this conversation on my husband’s Facebook chat history. I want to make sure this stays annonymous, so I’ve changed the names, places and phone numbers…
I think this is cheating, but my husband disagrees. Although, he does now think it was wrong because of how much it has hurt me. So I’m wondering if I’m over-reacting…
Sorry this is long and boring, but I didn’t want to leave out any of the details so you could see how the conversation actually flowed, as that does make a difference.
Is this cheating? Was she hitting on him? Or was he the one who started the inappropriate behavior?
October 16 Sally: hi Jack
October 16 Jack: Hi Sally – what have you been up to?
October 16 Sally: trouble LOL
October 16 Jack: really!!! You need to behave!
October 16 Sally: yea right whats the good in that. Hey congrats on your wedding.
October 16 Jack: thanks – all good there
October 16 Sally: hows work?
October 16 Jack: not working right now – the job market sucks right now what about you?
October 16 Sally: what! I thought you worked at the _______ I am working but want to go back to school but trying to find the time.
October 16 Jack: I did – _______ is over. are you still in the USAR?
October 16 Sally: yep up at ft _______ the supply sgt there
October 16 Jack: that got old for me.
October 16 Sally: will have drill this weekend matter of fact. we miss you LOL
October 16 Jack: I miss it, too.
October 16 Sally: really come on back then LOL
October 16 Jack: I don’t miss it that much;
October 16 Sally: well if you have nothing to do this weekend come down for a visit
October 16 Jack: getting too old I haven’t been to Chicago in a long time.
October 16 Sally: wait a minute got to get a refill on my glass of wine
October 16 Jack: Okay – I’ll get a beer
October 16 Sally: beer, pinot grigio
October 16 Sally: wheres the other half?
October 16 Jack on the sofa! What about your other half?
October 16 Sally your wife silly
October 16 Sally good pictures by the way
October 16 Jack Thanks!
October 16 Sally well like I said you should come visit us
October 16 Jack I know, but I am trying not to get into trouble!!
October 16 Sally why would you get into trouble
October 16 Jack who knows! Am trying to behave!
October 16 Sally you of course lol why would you mis behave lol
October 16 Jack We got close!
October 16 Sally who
October 16 Jack Who?
October 16 Sally yes who
October 16 Jack Remember, leaving McCoy 2 years ago?
October 16 Sally maybe but you werent intersted
October 16 Jack I kept things in perspective.
October 16 Sally well ok but now you are married
October 16 Jack Yes. I knew that’s where I was going…
October 16 Sally ok
October 16 Jack We could have had some fun…
October 16 Sally maybe but I didnt think you liked me
October 16 Jack i hadn’t seen you in 9 years
October 16 Sally but I am still surprised you talk to me,
October 16 Jack Of course I do!
October 16 Sally thank you I had your number but it was disconnected
October 16 Jack I had a different cell # then,
October 16 Sally ok getting tipsy with this wine lol
October 16 Jack If I was there we’d probably be getting naked right about now!
October 16 Sally anyway I will be up there friday night at laquinta inn really
October 16 Jack Maybe!
October 16 Sally lol chicken
October 16 Jack I cant be there – other plans this weekend!
October 16 Sally did I ever tell you you look like Jeff Chandler the movie star. oh well
October 16 Jack I’ve been told that!
October 16 Sally thats a good thing
October 16 Jack Probably so!
October 16 Sally well I would give you my number but that may not be a good thing
October 16 Jack I’m trying to behave!
October 16 Sally ok
October 16 Jack Let’s leave it at that1
October 16 Sally lol
October 16 Jack I’ll catch you later!
October 16 Sally why are all the good ones taken, just my luck 🙁
October 16 Jack I can’t answer that!
October 16 Sally night 🙂 chicken LOL
October 16 Jack CYA
October 16 Sally lmao
October 18 Sally like chatting with you last night, if you want to chat 555-555-5555